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RESOLVING CONFLICTS USING LIGHT AND LOVE
USING SPIRIT GUIDE CONFERENCES
By Martin Kelman
Here are some practical examples of how to resolve conflicts with others. I have used these methods and they work. Keep in mind that not only your highest and greatest good must be considered, but also that of the other person or group, and all those concerned, meaning all those affected by the changes. You can see why spirit sometimes needs to make the decisions.
I was having a lot of conflict with a fellow employee. We were like oil and water. I had tried to be nice to him, to stay out of his way, to engage him in conversation, compliment him on his skills, etc. but nothing seemed to work. After being physically pushed and being fearful of more of the same, I knew I had to do something.
I went home that night and reached deep into my heart and asked how could I resolve this issue. I was at my wits end! Somehow I decided to contact my guides and ask them to help me and to ask them to get in contact with this man’s guides as well. It was the concept of a conference that I found so wonderful and surprising. I knew I had to think of a request that would come from love and be in the highest and greatest good of both parties. Something practical. Well the conference began and my guides did indeed get in contact with his guides. I asked that either myself or the other person receive a wonderful job that would be a great promotion and be appropriate. I really had to open my heart and see the other person in a loving way while doing this. After the conference the guides said, “It is done.” The next week the other man received a wonderful promotion, which made him very happy, and I was so happy for him. It was the perfect job for him, and as it turned out I was meant to stay and am so happy I have, but this is another story.
In another work related situation, which was not as aggressive as the one described above, a different method was used. A fellow worker who thrived on competition and was throwing his accomplishments in my face, and although I knew this had nothing to do with who I am, it did wear me down day after day. Again there seemed to be no common ground. I had tried to explain what was important to me and why competition was so foreign to me. I had tried sending light to him before and it had not worked. I did not understand that it was indeed having an effect and that all that was need was a more consistent effort. I also realized that it would be best to send this love and light as soon after a conflict had arisen. Also if a negative thought entered my mind concerning him I would again send light. Having been more consistent and timely seemed to be the answer. The challenge is no more. How wonderful!
Of course you ask, how do you send light? It is a developed skill and the heart must be truly open with your highest loving intent for all parties. Unfortunately we will have to deal with this in another article, as it is a large subject. But for the moment, begin to practice. Imagine the person you wish to deal with is standing right in front of you. Open your heart and let the white light come from your heart into his or her heart. See a loving beam of light coming from your heart to their heart. Truly see it and let it enter their heart. Let the light spread wherever it wishes to go, for that is where it wishes to go.
Another way is to see the person in front of you and imagine that there is light extending from your hands and fingers. Let the light and energy and love pour from your hands and fingers and lovingly caress the outline of the person. Start with the crown or top of the head and bring this light lovingly around their head and shoulders, and arms and down their whole body. Envision it! Believe it! Let it flow form your heart! It works!
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Resolving Conflict Using Light and Love
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